Disagreements cannot but happen in relationship/marriages but understanding each other and knowing the best way to manage individual differences goes a long way which requires lots of experiences and maturity. Don't have the mindset of good moments all through because you can't but hurt one each other in one way or another. The ability to manage those rifts periods determines how long your marriage would last. Some relationships/marriages disagreements are being approached in some childish ways as follows:

CRYING

Tears do not solve a issues. It only make your partner feel guilty even if they're not wrong, feel bad, most likely they will start petting you, offer you a bribe, drop the issue, probably that is what you wanted, but remember, the issue hasn't been solved. But it's childish to keep using this approach whenever things get heated up, whether you are right or wrong. Your partner will come to see you as a crybaby. He/She perceives you weak and too emotional which could even lead to taking you for granted on the long run. Pour out what hurts your feelings and stop crying instead of expressing your mind. He can't read your mind through tears, hell No!

GUILT TRIPPING

An issue is being addressed, and your next line of approach is to guilt trip your partner.

"so are you saying I'm wicked"

"so you hate me this much?"

"it's okay, I can see I'm the problem of your life" "thank you, for showing your true self earlier"

Implying and Saying things they didn't imply or say. Just to make them feel guilty. This may be effective initially, but it will seriously make them perceive you as a bad minded fellow. This has a very short life span and only makes your partner start resenting dating/marrying you in the first place.

STONE WALLING

There's a disagreement, you stop picking up his/her calls. You move into another room. You refuse to talk about the issue even when they are seeking a reconciliation. You will drive a nail into the heart of your. Relationship/Marriage and kill it doing this regularly. Malice is another kind of stone walling. If after every argument, you need 1 week to start actively talking to your partner again, then you need to grow up.

DENIALS

So there's a disagreement, and you start withdrawing the privileges your partner enjoys. You stop cooking for your husband. You deny your husband sex. You withdraw financial assistance from him/her. By doing this, many have pushed their partners into an affair, adultery, and lost valuable life partners. You will make your partner begin to resent that assistance because they know you will use it as a means to punish them the next time you disagree. You are teaching your partner to look for an alternative, and trust me, they will, and soon they will not need you again. Conflict is not always the problem, but how a person chosees to handle their conflict.

Handle conflict Maturely. Relationship and Marriage isn't for Children.

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